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Gender Inclusive Housing

Gender Inclusive Housing (GIH) exists with the explicit goal of providing a housing experience with a sense of belonging and community for transgender, non-binary, and gender non-comforming students, as well as lesbian, gay, bisexual, queer, and questioning students and allies of the those communities. In these assignments, students may room with any other student - regardless of sex, gender, gender identity/expression, or sexual orientation. This community is open to incoming first-year students, transfer students, and returning students.

Gender Identity in StarRez Portal

Gender identity (as may be different from birth/assigned at birth/documented gender) in the StarRez system is currently limited to Male, Female, Neutral, Other, and Unknown, and we need to work within these options, although they are not as encompassing as we may prefer.  

  • Unknown is typically provided by the university system when data is not available. 
  • Neutral typically designates an identity that cannot be taken to refer to either of the male or female identities alone or may have aspects of either. 
  • Other designates a gender identity that doesn't fit the categories above.

In the StarRez system, male, female, and neutral gender identities work within the GIH process automatically.  Individuals with Unknown or Other identities will require additional communication between the student and Housing and Residence Life staff to appropriately consider assignment options.

Roommate Questions and Roommate Groups

Those who may seek roommates who are open and supportive of the communties above, but who are not specifically interested in GIH may find two Roommate Questions to be helpful in finding a roommate match.  This may also be used within the GIH program to further identify students who may be a good fits as a roommate. Students may search within the Roommate Groups tab to find students who have responded similarly and then contact those students to talk about forming a roommate group and working together to select a room assignment.  These questions under the Roommate Questions tab within the housing contract are:

  • Having my roommate be LGBTQIA-friendly is:  (important to me, not important to me, choose not to answer, or leave blank)
  • Living with a transgender, non-binary, gender non-conforming roommate is: (comfortable for me, not comfortable for me, choose not to answer, or leave blank)

Housing locations for this community vary in several buildings and room types. Spaces currently planned for GIH include suite-style, traditional, and a few private bathroom configurations. Depending on the needs of space and participation, assignments may be changed to consolidate space during the assignment process and you will be notified accordingly.

If the options listed do not reflect your Gender Identity, or if you have any questions or concerns, please feel free to contact us directly and we can assist you.

If you do not feel that this type of community would be appropriate for you, but you still have specific needs to be considered, please contact the Housing office at (540) 231-6205, and speak with either Chelsea Lambusta ( or Ken Belcher (

Students who are interested in both GIH and Living Learning Communities (LLC) may be contacted about housing choices as LLC spaces are more constrained.  This housing option is not available in the Corps of Cadets and Oak Lane housing areas.

Students who are not interested in gender inclusive housing will not be assigned into those specific spaces.

To Apply to GIH

  1. While completing a housing contract (you must first be offered housing during a regular housing process to engage in GIH), you will see a tab called "Gender Inclusive Housing."  On that tab, you should indicate  your interest in the program in the dropdown provided.
  2. Students who indicate an interest will have a short-answer question displayed on a new tab that then opens next in the workflow.  
  3. After submitting, Housing and Residence Life staff will review and add students into the GIH program.
  4. You should continue through the housing process, electronically signing your terms and conditions, and then moving into the Web Screen Name/Searchable Status and Roomate Question sections.  On the Web Screen Name, you will be able to write a few paragraphs about yourself that you wish to share with potential roommates.  Note, this section is not searchable, so the questions referenced above under Roommate Questions give you a chance to narrow your search.   We strongly encourage students to create roommate groups so that they are familiar with the needs of their roommate in this community whenever possible.
  5. If you are selected into GIH, your assignment room options (those rooms tagged as being available to this community) will be displayed when your assignment timeslot opens.
  6. HRL staff may need to consolidate room assignments or communicate with you about options throughout the process, so please check your email frequently.

Roommate/Suitemate Conflict 

The best way to avoid roommate conflicts is to have roommates proactively discuss expectations of each other and the shared living space. This includes guests/visitors, expectations regarding privacy, cleanliness, shared items/food, etc. One of the best tools to avoid conflict is a roommate agreement.  Students in on-campus housing are expected to complete a roommate agreement.  When/if disagreements occur, it is best to talk about them as soon as appropriately possible. If needed, assistance initiating a difficult or uncomfortable conversation with roommate(s) is available from the resident advisor or Residence/Student Life Coordinator (RLC/SLC). Sometimes it is not ideal to remain roommates. If that is the best option, students may pursue a room change to another room.  It is likely that this would be a traditional, gender-assigned room.   It is highly unlikely that a completely empty room would be available in the system at any point in the academic year.  

If a roommate cancels their housing or moves out of the room for any reason, the remaining roommates must identify a new roommate to fill the vacancy within 2 weeks (1 week if the campus is in an over-occupancy situation). If the space is not filled by this date, Housing and Residence Life may fill the remaining empty bed with someone who agrees to the tenants of the program.  All students in on-campus housing are expected to accept and welcome a new roommate as assigned by Housing and Residence Life per the terms and conditions of their housing/dining contract.   


Housing and Residence Life reserves the right to consolidate space as needed to maximize effective use of on-campus space and may change assignment after notice to the affected student as per the terms of the housing/dining contract.   For example, if the assignment of a new roommate into a former gender-neutral space might create conflict within the hall or not be reasonable due to the location of the bathroom facilities, the remaining roommate may be required to relocate. 

Community Expectations and Communication

Housing and Residence Life strongly discourages students of any sexual orientation who are in a relationship from living together in a residence hall room; however, we do not question the student’s intentions for wanting to live in the Gender Inclusive Housing option. Our expectation is that roommate matches last the entire academic year and for the roommate match to be just one of many relationships formed within and outside of the living community.

It is the student’s choice to communicate with family members about the decision to live in a Gender Inclusive Housing environment. Housing and Residence Life encourages this conversation between family members and students about the housing choice so that they can be in support of the student’s decision.